hey, i feel your pain. i used to not be able to advance because my secondary was weak, but when i focused, farmed, and upgraded the things i needed to, i quickly moved from the rank 11-12 trap, and into rank 10-8
plus, i had everyone here encouraging me to advance
and a brother... and my dad.... and my stepmom.... and people at school :v
the side of my family im with rn is good, but my other side? nope... really stupid, hard to deal with ppl...